Should You Marry Him? A No-Nonsense, Therapist-Tested Guide to Not Screwing Up The Biggest Decision of Your Life by Abby Rodman, LICSW

About to tie the knot?

Wondering if you (or your beau) are truly ready for a lifetime commitment?

Should You Marry Him? Is a little book with a lot of sage advice from psychotherapist and relationship expert Abby Rodman, who uses her vast experience and knowledge of relationships, and what makes or breaks them, to help guide potential brides through the most common pitfalls that cause marriages to end in divorce.

But don’t be fooled by this book’s slim appearance- it’s brimming over with some of the most difficult, gut-wrenching, soul-searching questions you’ll ever face; all designed to help you determine if your relationship is truly built on the stable foundation that is crucial to living out your happily-ever-after.

This book will help you:

  • assess the quality of your love relationship
  • learn why minimizing the importance of sex can be fatal to your relationship
  • consider commonly overlooked lifestyle issues that can derail your marriage
  • understand why the “Kid decision” is so crucial
  • recognize why hurting each other can be healing
  • identify why making changes for your relationship may not be healthiest option in the long run
  • answer the one critical question you must ask yourself before you say yes

Divided neatly into the 10 key subjects each bride-to-be needs to consider, this book really packs a wallop for it’s small (67 page) size. Rodman provides multiple real-life examples of common marriage issues, how they can be fixed, and how they can be avoided altogether.

If you are considering marriage but have a few lingering doubts, you might want to pick up a copy of this book- but be prepared to take a good look deep down inside and sweat it out as you answer it’s difficult questions before you take the plunge.

Rating: 3.5 stars

I received a free copy of this book from the author in exchange for an honest review.

About the Author:

Abby Rodman is a psychotherapist, relationship expert, author and speaker, renowned for her focus on dating, marriage and divorce in midlife. She has appeared on the Today Show with Kathie Lee and Hoda, HuffPost Live, and is regularly sought out by print, broadcast and online media outlets for her expertise on relationship issues.  Abby is a regular blogger on the Huffington Post, and Your Tango. Her book, “Should You Marry Him?” is a must-read for both women and men at any stage of life who are considering tying the knot. Abby is currently working on her second book — due out this year — which will be about women’s experience with midlife divorce.

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